How to Meet Successful Men
by kalyani10
Support a cause
Supporting a favorite cause is one of the many ways successful men give back to their community; so try and wrangle an invitation to a charity gala or fund-raising dinner in your city which is sure to attract its share of wealthy patrons and quite likely to have a single or two on their guest list. on the other hand if you cannot afford an pass to one of these $500-a-plate dinners, try and volunteer for some non-profit which may throw you in close proximity to a rich donor and if he is single, you can get chatting over your favorite causes.
Hit the upscale hangouts
While the truly successful do not make up the usual clientele of local bars and cafes, sometimes even the rich need to chill out at a favorite place. These are likelier to be upscale pubs and bars stocked with the choicest spirits and decked out in elegant discreet interiors. Also if you want to meet the successful professionals then hang out in places nearest to their offices. High class pubs near lawyers’ or doctors’ chambers are likely venues since busy people rarely venture far from their workplace when they wish to relax with a drink after a hard day. Other options would be exclusive wine bars or sports bars which have a selective clientele.
Be part of the neighborhood
Then again, there are only so many hours in a day you can hang out at a café or bar – no matter how exclusive they are. If however you want to meet successful men as part of a normal routine, then try to become a regular fixture in affluent neighborhoods. You can do this either by buying a small place here or if you can’t even afford a pad, by frequenting the stores and parks in the area. Here you can come across the rich singles as they go about for a morning jog in the neighborhood park or pick up their favorite dessert at the local delicatessen, all of which are going to offer you ample opportunities to open a conversation without trying to appear brazen.
Look further
Even though the conventional meaning of success in mainstream society is financial achievement, keep in mind that there are other kinds of people who are equally successful in their chosen field of work. And while lawyers and doctors probably bring home a fatter paycheck, the professional respect and quality lifestyle that academicians, artists, defense personnel and engineers get has their own attractions. Moreover, achievers in other fields like the arts, culture, charity, technology and academics are not only likely to be more accessible but in fact may even make for a more equitable relationship.
Nurture your own personality
Successful men are highly coveted as partners since they bring several advantages to the dating table. So you need to take some steps too if you want to attract the attention of the highly successful singles. First of all you would need to brush up your appearances and present a well-groomed look. Successful people are used to being surrounded by the best in their professional and recreational spheres and have high expectations of people around them. Also it is not just enough to have a pretty face and a stunning figure to be eligible as a date; you also need to cultivate an attractive personality and be able to make interesting conversation. According to research, most financially successful men have at least some form of college education like a bachelors degree or higher. It is only natural that such educated men seek out for a relationship, women who are qualified as well or have a similar background in education. And although many of these men are sure to have had flings with attractive woman who may have crossed their path, they are unlikely to take a woman seriously unless they share roughly the same intellectual wavelength or are on some equal social footing. In other words, cultivate a love for the arts and culture, be informed about what is happening around the world and keep track of latest developments in science and technology. While not all successful men look like Hollywood stars, they are rarely duffers and neither would like their partners to be so.
Finally someone who is more successful than you will always be busier than you are. He will have professional commitments and compulsions which may require him to spend long hours at work and then some more, networking and socializing with business contacts. So when dating a highly successful person, it is necessary that you have a full life yourself. A job, hobbies and your own circle of friends will not only keep you busy when your partner is away but also make you social and confident and thus attractive to your successful partner.
A fulfilling relationship depends on several factors of which a partner’s professional success is one of the most important. Financial stability in a relationship not only means being able to afford the comforts of life but also having the luxury of building hopes for the future. So if you are keen to getting to know successful men, whether for companionship or to settle down with, here are a few tips on how to meet them.
Work alongside them
Since successful men spend most of their waking hours at the workplace, getting a job at a good place is one of the best ways to meet singles among them. Even a summer internship or a part-time shift will do since this will bring you in touch with the men at the top of your company or workplace. So look for a company or firm which is reeling in profits every year and then try to find out who you would like to know among the movers and shakers there. Or get associated with a large teaching hospital where some of the high-paid surgeons and anesthetists are sure to be taking home a six-figure paycheck. In fact, many rich singles are turned on by potential partners who are rising professionals themselves since it implies confidence, intelligence and firm goals in life – all very attractive qualities in a partner.
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Hang out at business places
It might be a pain to stand in a queue at the bank but the same venue to help you run into a successful banker or finance professional. So try and frequent places where serious professionals come together. These could be the usual places of business like banks and conference halls or professional events like lectures, workshops and seminars. The best part about hanging out at such dos is that despite the dry professional environment, you can be more or less certain of finding singles who are successes in their field of work. So, after you have made your choice you can discuss the prospects of an upcoming hedge fund over a delicious cup of coffee and plan how to meet again.
Log in
Sometimes the most direct approach is the most effective. These days there are several social networking and dating websites designed just for the successful singles. These online forums are a good way to screen potential candidates for their money and get the ball rolling, all within the comfort of your home. However you need to create your profile with great care and put up photos which are just the thing the rich boys are looking for. Also Before you frequent a social networking or dating site be sure to check out their screening policies. The ones with stricter policies may have fewer members, but those members will be more likely to be who they say they are.
Support a cause
Supporting a favorite cause is one of the many ways successful men give back to their community; so try and wrangle an invitation to a charity gala or fund-raising dinner in your city which is sure to attract its share of wealthy patrons and quite likely to have a single or two on their guest list. on the other hand if you cannot afford an pass to one of these $500-a-plate dinners, try and volunteer for some non-profit which may throw you in close proximity to a rich donor and if he is single, you can get chatting over your favorite causes.
Hit the upscale hangouts
While the truly successful do not make up the usual clientele of local bars and cafes, sometimes even the rich need to chill out at a favorite place. These are likelier to be upscale pubs and bars stocked with the choicest spirits and decked out in elegant discreet interiors. Also if you want to meet the successful professionals then hang out in places nearest to their offices. High class pubs near lawyers’ or doctors’ chambers are likely venues since busy people rarely venture far from their workplace when they wish to relax with a drink after a hard day. Other options would be exclusive wine bars or sports bars which have a selective clientele.
Be part of the neighborhood
Then again, there are only so many hours in a day you can hang out at a café or bar – no matter how exclusive they are. If however you want to meet successful men as part of a normal routine, then try to become a regular fixture in affluent neighborhoods. You can do this either by buying a small place here or if you can’t even afford a pad, by frequenting the stores and parks in the area. Here you can come across the rich singles as they go about for a morning jog in the neighborhood park or pick up their favorite dessert at the local delicatessen, all of which are going to offer you ample opportunities to open a conversation without trying to appear brazen.
Look further
Even though the conventional meaning of success in mainstream society is financial achievement, keep in mind that there are other kinds of people who are equally successful in their chosen field of work. And while lawyers and doctors probably bring home a fatter paycheck, the professional respect and quality lifestyle that academicians, artists, defense personnel and engineers get has their own attractions. Moreover, achievers in other fields like the arts, culture, charity, technology and academics are not only likely to be more accessible but in fact may even make for a more equitable relationship.
Nurture your own personality
Successful men are highly coveted as partners since they bring several advantages to the dating table. So you need to take some steps too if you want to attract the attention of the highly successful singles. First of all you would need to brush up your appearances and present a well-groomed look. Successful people are used to being surrounded by the best in their professional and recreational spheres and have high expectations of people around them. Also it is not just enough to have a pretty face and a stunning figure to be eligible as a date; you also need to cultivate an attractive personality and be able to make interesting conversation. According to research, most financially successful men have at least some form of college education like a bachelors degree or higher. It is only natural that such educated men seek out for a relationship, women who are qualified as well or have a similar background in education. And although many of these men are sure to have had flings with attractive woman who may have crossed their path, they are unlikely to take a woman seriously unless they share roughly the same intellectual wavelength or are on some equal social footing. In other words, cultivate a love for the arts and culture, be informed about what is happening around the world and keep track of latest developments in science and technology. While not all successful men look like Hollywood stars, they are rarely duffers and neither would like their partners to be so.
Finally someone who is more successful than you will always be busier than you are. He will have professional commitments and compulsions which may require him to spend long hours at work and then some more, networking and socializing with business contacts. So when dating a highly successful person, it is necessary that you have a full life yourself. A job, hobbies and your own circle of friends will not only keep you busy when your partner is away but also make you social and confident and thus attractive to your successful partner.
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