Keeping your Husband Attracted to you - Tips and Advice

Women once married often end up neglecting themselves as lovers. Caught up in the whirlpool of a demanding job, raising kids and looking after the home, one day they are rudely confronted by the sight of their husbands looking at another woman with something similar to desire. If you find yourself veering dangerously close to such a situation, take heed of the following tips and keep your husband attracted to you.

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Take care of your appearance

Granted there is more to you than your appearance but that is still not an excuse to let yourself go after some time into a marriage. Remember when you were dating, how much time and effort you put into turning out in your best. While both may be precious commodities now what with juggling a career and family, still try to set aside at least half an hour each day for yourself. Use the time to go for a jog or burn off some calories on the treadmill. You need not strive for a reed thin figure but regular exercise will not only give you a well toned and hence attractive body but more importantly keep your heart healthy. Also go for beauty routines like a pedicure or a facial from time to time so that your skin retains its glow. Take care of your hair too with a nourishing diet and regular trimming. All this might seem too much work initially but you need not fit all of them in a single day. Space out your skincare routine say over several weekends or twice a week but make sure that you make time for something you need to do everyday like a workout. This way it will be easier to take care of your appearance without getting overwhelmed by all the scheduling. Your husband will be sure to notice the change in you besides loving the fact that you took some effort in looking good for him. This will go a long way in keeping your husband attracted to you.

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Make suitable changes in your personal style

If your wardrobe has not seen any changes since the last three years, perhaps it is time for some spring cleaning. A good thumb rule is to discard anything that you have not worn in the past year. But if you don’t want to be drastic, at least make a realistic assessment of each time in your closet. If it is way out of fashion or more a couple of sizes different from what you are wearing now, think about whether you should keep them. At the same time, honestly assess your present figure and buy clothes which will flatter your best features while minimizing those that are less than perfect. It is not necessary to go for a complete overhaul of your wardrobe especially when you cannot afford it. Just pick up a couple of things from each group like daytime wear, evening wear, casual wear and so on. If you don’t feel confident or aware enough to decide on your choices, by all means take help from a trusted friend who is an expert but remember that finally it is about you and your personal style should complement your personality. When you look good, you feel good within which in turn makes others including your husband feel good being around you and finding himself attracted to you. 

Explore mutual interests

Go back to the time when you were dating and try to think of all that drew you to each other. These could have been common interests and hobbies like music, sports or cooking. Even if you are now swamped with work, try to make time for at least one hobby over the weekend which you can pursue in each other’s company. Doing things together will go a long way in rekindling that earlier spark of attraction between you and your husband. Also it will provide a topic of conversation other than kids and chores and help you to bond as a man and woman and not necessarily as domestic partners.

Broaden your own horizons

Refreshing your appearance is not enough if you want to keep your husband attracted to you. You must also come off as a smart woman who is not content to sit at home or rest on what she has already achieved. If you have concentrated on your career all this while, take up a new interest like dancing or gardening. Or after all this time of being a stay-at-home mom, join a short course at a nearby college or simply learn a new language. Doing something new and worthwhile will not only make you a happier more fulfilled person, it will also encourage your husband to look at you afresh and even appreciate your initiative.

Get a life

One of the most effective ways to keep a man attracted to you is to give him a sense that his presence is not always required. Appearing needy and unable to take a decision or go anywhere without him are all sure-fire ways to turn a guy off. Let him see you having fun with your own friends and going out every now and them to enjoy a movie or a shopping expedition without him. Once he sees you as an independent person taking responsibility for her own happiness and even with an air of mystery about her, your husband will be all the more attracted to you.

Take an interest in him

Easier said than done especially when you feel that after all these years in a marriage you know all there is to know about your husband. However it will never hurt to show a little more interest in what he likes, is fond of or aspires to in life. Bake him his favorite cookies once in a while or take the lead in making love. Sit by him while he watches football and show interest in his favorite team. At the same time be a little unpredictable in ways of showing your love so that your husband is kept guessing on what you will do for him next. This is not to say that you do all the giving in your relationship but that by being spontaneous and fun, you’ll be sure to keep him attracted to you.