How to Meet Women at the Beach
by kalyani10
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For starters go where the biggest crowds are – this will immediately raise your chances of meeting a woman who is receptive to your social overtures. Again don’t hesitate to approach groups. Women don't usually go alone to the beach. Approaching a trio of girls is your best bet; there is enough company so they won’t feel threatened, but they're open to newcomers. If you find any form of coed beach party, befriend the men by joining a game. Once you have blended in, you're free to start chatting up the girls.
Open a conversation
Even if a particular location on the beach provides loads of eye-candy, merely staring at women here will not get you anywhere – at best you will remain on your own and at worst you may come off as a creep. Rather the best way to meet women would be open a conversation with them and you can make use of the casual context where people are generally friendly. For instance if an attractive woman is sun-bathing right next to your deck, open a conversation by commenting on the lovely weather or great surf. Or you could say “People at the beach are relaxed and so laid back, I noticed” as this will set a frame for her to follow.
Aim your body language always on an angle away from her or her group of friends. Positioning yourself face-to-face will make you come on too strong and perhaps put her guard up. Again keep your approach low key and don’t try to be too high energy. Ensure you appear laid-back which not only makes for an easy conversation but present you as a chilled-out guy.
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Make use of props
Part of the reason why the beach makes a good socializing venue is that there is lots to do even as you are checking out other singles. So if you are trying to meet women here, come prepared with certain props - a Frisbee, Volleyball or a Beach ball is particularly useful since With these you can approach a girl and ask, "Want to play?” Again a radio often comes in handy when you find yourself laying down near a girl or group of single girls; turn on your radio and ask them casually "What station would you like to hear?" This opens the door for further conversation and opportunities to get to know a girl and make your moves. Your surfboard can be yet another useful prop - If you surf yourself this can be an advantage in meeting single women since some girls are very attracted to surfers. Most girls don't know how to surf and have never even been on a surfboard. If you do surf, all you have to do is approach a girl and ask her, "Would you like to learn how to surf?" If you don't know how to surf, you can always fake it. It will be a lot of fun trying anyway. Finally you can try the classic suntan oil ruse - Approach a girl you are attracted to and ask her if she would you rub some suntan oil on your back. You will rarely get turned down and it would really feel good having a girl rubbing your back.
Grab the opportunity
Once you have made some small talk or played a game of Frisbee, don’t hesitate to grab the window of opportunity. Go ahead and suggest a coffee date then and there “Hey, I’m just about to grab a quick coffee over the road…would you like to join me?” If she says no … “That’s cool, well I think it’ll be fun if we caught up sometime”
Most of all have fun yourself. One of the biggest mistakes single guys make at the beach is to appear desperate to pick up a girl. If you go to the beach during the day and you don’t have any purpose other than to just meet girls, you’re going to tend to have a lot more anxiety and it’s going to be a lot harder for you to have any sort of connection with the girl. Instead use your Frisbee, a beach ball, surf board or take a book so that you are having a good time on your own at the beach. In fact you can integrate your recreational activities with meeting girls. Maybe you’ll see a couple of girls and you kick the ball over near where they are and use that as a conversation starter. Keep in mind that it is human nature for people are attracted to those who are having fun and women too are more likely to find such men cool and self-assured.
The beach can one of the amazing places to meet women – the weather is great, the setting is casual and the beauties are in bikinis. What more could a single guy want? And yet ever so often men come off as sleazy or pathetic as they are unable to approach women here in the right manner. Here are then a few tips on how to meet women at the beach so that everyone has a great time.
Get the basics right
While the beach demands casual dressing, make it a point to put in some effort if you are looking forward to meeting women. Dress well and don't just wear a pair of old cut-offs with holes in them. Wear a nice designer bathing suit if you intend to go swimming. Also, while not sunning, wear a shirt or pullover appropriate for the beach such as a tank top or colorful T-shirt – you may be proud of your six packs but if you saunter everywhere in a near nude status you may come off as rather sleazy. Also invest in some stylish shades so you look your sexiest but when talking to a woman it is best you take them off – eye contact is an important way women evaluate interest in a man and if she isn’t able to see your eyes, she may be wary of taking things further than a casual hello.
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For starters go where the biggest crowds are – this will immediately raise your chances of meeting a woman who is receptive to your social overtures. Again don’t hesitate to approach groups. Women don't usually go alone to the beach. Approaching a trio of girls is your best bet; there is enough company so they won’t feel threatened, but they're open to newcomers. If you find any form of coed beach party, befriend the men by joining a game. Once you have blended in, you're free to start chatting up the girls.
Open a conversation
Even if a particular location on the beach provides loads of eye-candy, merely staring at women here will not get you anywhere – at best you will remain on your own and at worst you may come off as a creep. Rather the best way to meet women would be open a conversation with them and you can make use of the casual context where people are generally friendly. For instance if an attractive woman is sun-bathing right next to your deck, open a conversation by commenting on the lovely weather or great surf. Or you could say “People at the beach are relaxed and so laid back, I noticed” as this will set a frame for her to follow.
Aim your body language always on an angle away from her or her group of friends. Positioning yourself face-to-face will make you come on too strong and perhaps put her guard up. Again keep your approach low key and don’t try to be too high energy. Ensure you appear laid-back which not only makes for an easy conversation but present you as a chilled-out guy.
Meet millionaire men at MillionaireMatch.com.
Make use of props
Part of the reason why the beach makes a good socializing venue is that there is lots to do even as you are checking out other singles. So if you are trying to meet women here, come prepared with certain props - a Frisbee, Volleyball or a Beach ball is particularly useful since With these you can approach a girl and ask, "Want to play?” Again a radio often comes in handy when you find yourself laying down near a girl or group of single girls; turn on your radio and ask them casually "What station would you like to hear?" This opens the door for further conversation and opportunities to get to know a girl and make your moves. Your surfboard can be yet another useful prop - If you surf yourself this can be an advantage in meeting single women since some girls are very attracted to surfers. Most girls don't know how to surf and have never even been on a surfboard. If you do surf, all you have to do is approach a girl and ask her, "Would you like to learn how to surf?" If you don't know how to surf, you can always fake it. It will be a lot of fun trying anyway. Finally you can try the classic suntan oil ruse - Approach a girl you are attracted to and ask her if she would you rub some suntan oil on your back. You will rarely get turned down and it would really feel good having a girl rubbing your back.
Grab the opportunity
Once you have made some small talk or played a game of Frisbee, don’t hesitate to grab the window of opportunity. Go ahead and suggest a coffee date then and there “Hey, I’m just about to grab a quick coffee over the road…would you like to join me?” If she says no … “That’s cool, well I think it’ll be fun if we caught up sometime”
Most of all have fun yourself. One of the biggest mistakes single guys make at the beach is to appear desperate to pick up a girl. If you go to the beach during the day and you don’t have any purpose other than to just meet girls, you’re going to tend to have a lot more anxiety and it’s going to be a lot harder for you to have any sort of connection with the girl. Instead use your Frisbee, a beach ball, surf board or take a book so that you are having a good time on your own at the beach. In fact you can integrate your recreational activities with meeting girls. Maybe you’ll see a couple of girls and you kick the ball over near where they are and use that as a conversation starter. Keep in mind that it is human nature for people are attracted to those who are having fun and women too are more likely to find such men cool and self-assured.
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