Flirting Tips for Shy Girls - Teen Dating Advice

Being flirtatious has its own charm! Not only does it help bring out the best in people, it also becomes a window of opportunity for some innocent fun. While many women are generously blessed with the ability to strike a chord with one look, there are many of us who fall prey to being coy. It does become a hindrance for us and try as hard as we may; we fail to make an impression that lasts. But, no more of that now, for here we have the sure-fire way to make your bashfulness work for you rather than against you!

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Conquer the art of smiling

Very simply put, smiling is the simplest and perhaps the most effective way of getting a man’s attention. Therefore, it is only logical, that you use this tool to the best of its advantage. With abundant room for experimentation, you have nothing to fear when you smile at the boy across the counter. A gesture which is always reciprocated, you can fine tune your smile to let the man know what goes on in your mind.

Look into his eyes

Whether you are talking to him or inviting him over to your table, the key is to look into his eyes. When you do this, you exude confidence. And confidence is a big turn on for men! Eyes are mirrors to the soul and if you can reflect yourself through your eyes, he’ll know you are a keeper.

Dress to kill

If you are shy to talk to guys but like being approached by them, this is one pointer you should always keep in mind. We all know that the first impression is the last and when you have a chance to make a killer first impression by dressing well, you will want to exploit it completely. Your wardrobe may not need a drastic change to make you look gorgeous, but a few essentials, like the little black dress, will definitely do the trick.

Be confident

Though you may be a nervous wreck inside, be your best on the outside. When you look secure and approachable, guys will make a beeline for you. Confidence may not necessarily come from wearing good clothes and being comfortable in them, it can also appear magically when you compliment yourself or you indulge in pampering yourself by getting a facial, a manicure, a pedicure or even a massage. Different things work for different women; hence you should try to find yourself the magic potion!

Entice him with words

Engage him in an interesting conversation. Guys like nothing better than a woman who can hold their attention with a few words. You do not have to venture into debatable topics and sports just to command his interest. However, you have to be sure to talk to him about matters that are relevant to him as well. You cannot and must not indulge in ‘women-talk’ and risk boring him away.   

Appreciate him

After you get past the smiles and all the talks, you have to make sure he stays there. If you find no topic that can bail you out, you can take the safe way out and compliment him. This doesn’t go to say that you have to lie to him or falsely appreciate him. You have to make an effort to look deeper and observe qualities within him that are worth complementing. If he smells nice, you tell him that he smells nice. If you think his eyes are deeper than the Pacific, tell him that too.

Desperation, No-No!

As easy as it is to give off the perfect smile, it is easy to give off signs of desperation too. You will want to steer clear of them at all times and maintain a fun and flirtatious atmosphere when you are with a guy. One of the most obvious ways to let out desperation is to talk about it. And to cover up your blunder, you laugh it off, which is even worse.

Be natural

Don’t try to put on a façade. If you are shy, be shy. If you are adventurous, show him that streak in you. Pretending to be someone you aren’t is a sure way of driving away a man and an evening that could have been fun. It never hurts to experiment with your persona but that experiment shouldn’t become a bone of contention between the two of you, at that instant or even later on.

Reciprocate gestures

Your coyness can keep you away from making the first move in few situations, but you must not let it overrule you in reciprocating gestures made by a cute guy. If you are being smiled at, smile back. If you like the guy, you could go a step ahead a buy him a drink as well. If on the other hand, you are being offered a drink, you could go over to his table and start a conversation. Any action you reciprocate cannot go unnoticed and thus you should utilize the situation to your advantage.

Let your feelings be known

The party is ending, the bar is closing and you have to head home. You do not want the evening to end but have no choice but to say bye. You are now at a crucial stage that will decide if you will meet the guy again or not. Therefore this is the time to let your feelings be known. You do not have to be aggressive about it, but you do not have to be shy either. You could take his number or give him yours to let him know that you expect him to call you.

Whether it is a bar or a coffee house, with these tips and tricks handy, you are sure to be a hit with the guy you like! So, go out, experiment and have some fun.