How to Meet and Date a Model

Dating a model is something most singles fantasize about. Who wouldn’t want a partner with killer looks, a hot body and smoldering sensuality. But in order to catch the attention of a model and most of all ensure that he/she wants to go out with you, you will have to be at the right time and the right place. Here are a few tips on how you can meet and date a model.

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Work with them

If you are not a billionaire or a Hollywood star yourself, the best chances of coming in contact with models lie in the profession. Try to get an opening in the fashion or the entertainment industry where most of these models move about. Photographers, designers, makeup experts, hair stylists, event managers and public relations executives of media companies are the people who interact with models on a regular basis. Once you become a professional, you will not only have access to models but also find it easier to establish contact with them – they will be more open to speaking on professional terms with you, rather than to guys/girls who only want their phone number.

Be seen in the right places

One of the most effective ways to meet models is to attend the biggest parties in town. You only need to open the entertainment section or page 3 or your newspaper to know that some party or event is being hosted all the time – whether to promote a product or to celebrate a successful venture. Most of these events are hosted by industrial houses and companies which recruit pretty young things to be seen and photographed at the venues. So if you can manage an invitation to such dos, you will not only be assured of meeting a bevy of models but even get to mingle with male and female guests who look equally hot.

Visit their favorite spots

The thing with modeling is that you work hard but then you play harder. If you have not been able to land an invitation to the best parties in town, head for the nightclubs and discos which have the hottest music and the craziest cocktails. While gaining entry here too will not come cheap, you are at least assured of rubbing shoulders with the hippest guys and gals. Models, both successful and wanna-bees have a thing about partying hard and long and at the most upscale nightspots you can have ample opportunities to make their acquaintance.

Get ready to spend

Models are high maintenance people and they have an eye for the best that money can buy. So if you are a woman and seeking to be noticed by that hunk from the TV commercials, make sure you are decked up in the best labels - carrying a Louis Vuitton bag and wearing Jimmy Choo shoes might not guarantee dating success with a Greek god but it will definitely attract notice and may be even act as a conversation starter. On the other hand if you are a guy and looking to meet the hottest girls on the ramp, make sure you are seen reserving the best tables in the fine dining places or ordering the really exotic cocktails at the bar. Frequenting fashion boutiques and high-end stores will also offer you ample opportunities to meet people who are in the business of looking good. Once you have managed an introduction to the guy or girl you want, let him/her know that you are willing to spend on the object of your interest including a date. At the same time though don’t go overboard with display of your wealth or you may come off as desperate and a jerk. Absolute no-nos are trying to buy a date with lavish gifts or soliciting their affections with monetary offers –  remember they are in the business of appearances but not hookers. So be guided by good taste and finesse when spending and you will be sure to catch the eye of the girl or guy you wish to date.

Treat them with respect

Since models are almost always being approached by eager men and women, you need to offer them something special that the run-of-the-mill date doesn’t. And one of the easiest ways to do this is to treat them as people who have brains as well as a body to die for. Models almost always come across to us through the visual medium – they are rarely heard. This is why most people make the mistake of believing they are dumb and have nothing worth saying. On the other hand if you treat a model with respect, he/she will be pleased to be appreciated for more than their external appearance while you will have a fair chance of winning their company for a date.

That goes for you too

At the same time, models are so used to their admirers bending backwards to please them, that they cannot help but being arrogant and snooty. If you too go along with the herd, then it is unlikely that he/she will find you special enough to want to go out with. Rather play cool and casual once you have already made the acquaintance of the person you want to date. Don't act desperate or call too frequently. Give him/her enough time to be interested in you and you can do this by showing that you have a social circle as well. Let him/her know that it is the lucky model who gets to date you, not the other way around.

Be accommodating

Models are quite finicky about what to eat and do – this is only natural when your physical appearance is your primary asset. So be careful about planning dates around food; since even after going through so much trouble reserving tables at the most exclusive restaurant you may find her nibbling on sticks of celery. Again physical activities with potential for injury may not be good date ideas either. Instead include activities like music and art before a meal and let your date pick the restaurant.
Finally enjoy your date while the going is good and don’t expect him/her to commit to a relationship any time soon. Since models depend on youth and beauty for their living, they need to be completely focused on their careers when they are young. However if you and your date hit off well enough to go steady, by all means go for it. If not, let the relationship run its course and have fun while dating.