Valentine's Day Love Making Ideas - Spice up your Valentine's Day

While Valentine’s Day is one of the most popular romantic holidays around the world, it has more to do with mushy sentimentality rather than red-hot passion. However this Valentine’s Day feel free to shrug off all sappy associations and get into the thick of some amorous action. Here are some love making ideas that will set your Valentine’s Day on fire and make your partner wish February 14 came every other weekend.

Start on the right note

If you are waking up next to your partner and you both are lucky enough to have the day off, how about setting the mood for Valentine’s Day with an intimate Good Morning? Gently nuzzle the side of your beloved’s neck with your mouth or suck at the tips of his/her fingers or toes. Follow this up by bringing them their favorite beverage- This could mean either a steaming cup of Earl Grey or freshly filtered coffee from the best Arabica; just the feeling of a delicious warmth seeping within on a cold, wet morning will speak volumes about your love and affection and ensure that your partner will not only be waking up to a cozy morning with you but can even look forward to some steamy romantic action.

A feast for the senses

One of the surefire ways to spice up an evening is to make dinner together since this offers ample opportunities for sensual delights. Not only do spices, herbs, berries and sauces heighten the senses of sight, smell and taste but the very process of making food involves using hands, fingers, the mouth and the tongue,  all of which make for a very sensual experience. Just remember to keep the menu simple since you don’t want to end up getting stressed by having to prepare too many courses. A creamy pasta perhaps to melt in your mouth, a fresh salad with cherry tomatoes and green herbs to give color and a main course of chicken or fish to provide the bite. And finally round off the evening with sinfully dark chocolate soufflé but not necessarily with a spoon and from your own plate!

Have a bath together

What better way to set the scene for an intimate evening on Valentine’s Day than to invite your partner to a warm soak in a bubble bath? Run the bath with warm water and add a few drops of essential oils like lavender or patchouli to induce a sense of relaxation. Or if you are in the mood for some fun, prepare a bubble bath in orange blossom or a similar aroma for a zesty feeling. To heighten the romance quotient, have a few perfumed candles flickering on the scene. You could also play music according to the mood you want to create and uncork that bottle of wine you have saving for a special occasion. Now all that remains is to get into the bath with your partner and give into the luxurious wetness embracing your bodies.

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Play a game

One of the best ways to get ready for an intimate night on Valentine’s Day is to play a romantic game with your partner. The fun and laughter involved in a game will on one hand loosen whatever inhibitions either of you may have and on the other, this will set the mood for some amorous action. These days there are a whole variety of romantic games for lovers which range from naughty to erotic. While a simple game like Twister can be physically boisterous and easily lead to love-making, others like Strip Chocolate and Sensual Tasks game can actually be part of the foreplay. The players are required take turns to roll the dice and then have to strip, select a dare or paint a part of the opponent’s body with chocolate. Try it out and you two might end up licking the chocolate off each other! On the other hand If you and your partner are feeling particularly adventurous, try out a game where you are required to pick “to do” cards which challenge the players with sensual tasks like giving a fifteen-minute massage or whispering racy messages in the other person’s ears. You can pick up the commercial version of this game, like ‘Lust!’, from a store or set tasks by yourself and print them on self-made cards. Best of all, everybody wins since the game ends with an intimate experience.

Ice-Ice baby

However if you wish to keep things simpler, come to bed armed with nothing more than a tray full of ice cubes. Start off with an ice cube in your partner’s mouth. While kissing him/her, coax the ice cube into your mouth and then run down the length of your lover’s body with it. Once you reach the waist, roll the ice cube up again and then turn it over to him/her. Now it is your partner’s turn to subject you to the pleasurable treatment with the ice cube. You can make this all part of an exciting foreplay or play it like a sensual game continues which till the ice cube melts- in fact if you want to play for rewards, the one who is left with the melted ice cube loses and has to do whatever their partner asks for – which could well be a sensual request from the other.

A night under the stars

If you and your partner don’t mind a little physical discomfort, a night under the stars can be one of the most thrilling intimate experiences. Plan to go camping this Valentine’s Day and set up a tent on a hillside or in a camping area where you are likely to have some privacy. After you have held hands and watched the sun go down, get ready preparing a fire. Roast marshmallows together and once you are warm enough, make love under the stars. While for some, the mere experience of making love out in the open can be a source of the most amazing thrill, the overall experience of physical intimacy in the midst of nature is likely to be a memory that will stay with you all your life.

Play a part

Role playing is one of the most effective ways to spice up things in your bedroom and this Valentine’s Day, try out a new identity that you have been fantasizing about for long. You and your partner can explore from a variety of options, ranging from the very popular French Maid and School Girl to the more risqué Nun’s habit or the Dominatrix Policewoman. The French maid look can range from the very conservative to the very revealing but the chief components usually are black pumps, a miniskirt, exposed garters, a lacy apron and white tiara to give a sexy touch. Don’t forget to arm yourself with a feather duster though. You can use this to brush over your partner, tickle him in the right places, thereby driving him to the heights of sexual ecstasy. On the other hand, if your partner has a partiality for bondage themes, Dress up in uniform of a lady cop but keep the shirt tight on the bodice and use black shiny boots. If you wish to go the whole hog, do the badges, lapels and the peak cap thing too. But the most important prop of course is the handcuffs and you are ready to ask, “Are you going to come quietly, sir”!

Props to go

Even if you are not comfortable enough to go the whole hog in a role playing endeavor, the use of a few but special props can make all the difference between a boring routine and sizzling sex. Here too there are a whole lot of options other than the usual handcuffs and feather-boa - Think sequins, beads, rustling skirts, chiming bracelets, gauze veils and lots of sensuous Arabic music. The best part of this sexual routine is that not only your partner will be dying to join you in the dance but you can get to have a lot of fun too – playing around with exotic fabrics, sounds and colors. For this you don’t need to get hold of the costume of an exotic dancer. Just pair up a gorgeously sequined bodice with a brightly colored low-waist skirt that goes down way below your navel. Put on some jewelry with soft tinkling sounds and give your skin a golden glow with makeup. Most important of all is of course the sheer veil which will partially hide your face and only be taken off when the music reaches a soul-shuddering climax. Get the idea?