5 Steps to Dating a Younger Man

Now that you are open to the idea of cougar dating, the sooner you enter the game the better. You can ill afford to lose time waiting for a cub to miraculously turn up at your door and ask you out. Here are five basic steps to dating a younger man that will help you rocket your social life and hold delicious possibilities in view.

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1. Spruce up your looks
   
   Even though younger men eager to date older women are not primarily motivated by looks, still you should do everything you can to spruce up your appearance. Apart from regular skincare and hair care, make sure that you indulge yourself in a salon once in a while. As you get ready for cougar dating, it would make sense to get a facial so that you get a youthful glow on your skin; manicure is another good idea since wrinkly and rough hands are one of the most common signs of aging. Above all choose a personal style that will hide your defects and play up your assets. Get a hairstyle that is attractive but also easy to manage so that you are not fussing with your bangs all the time on a date. Choose colors, fabrics and cuts that flatter your skin and body instead of merely aping styles more common among younger women. For the same reason, stay away from torn jeans and minifrocks and rather invest in high-quality, tailored suits and dresses. Go for a look that is classy and attractive instead of one that screams for attention. Make it a point to select a piece of expensive jewelry which will not only complement your outfit but make you appear a lady of fine tastes and resources. Finally don’t leave home without a spritz of a perfume, preferably smelling of chocolate, apples, vanilla cinnamon or mown grass since these are comfort smells and will bring back happy childhood memories for your cub.
   
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2. Look in the right places
   
   Once you have enhanced your looks and personality, it is time to scout the places where you are likely to meet younger men. The usual locations are college campuses as well as cafes and pubs in university towns. Apart from this hobby groups, art galleries and adventure clubs are also great ways to bump into young guys who are looking to take out older men. If you want a more streamlined approach, sign up with dating sites specifically meant for cougar dating or keep a look out for cougar dating events in an around your city – these could range from relatively casual ones like cougar nights at bars and discos to more organized ones like cougar speed dating events and cougar cruises. The venues frequented by you while looking for a date would naturally depend on the kind of cub and dating relationship you are looking for – like if you want nothing more than a one-night stand, a bar or nightclub usually makes for fertile hunting ground but if you are looking for a degree of compatibility, it may make sense to check out hobby clubs and special interest groups. However it also pays to keep an open mind since you never know who you might bump into at your neighborhood grocery store or at the swanky café in downtown area.
   
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3. Choose wisely
   
   As you arrive at a bar or a party, scan the room to take a good look at the kind of men gathered there. Keep in mind that the hotter the guy you are angling for, the larger will be the competition not only from fellow cougars but also from younger women. So unless you are very rich or happen to look like a supermodel, you may as well return home empty-handed. Instead watch out for other young guys who may be quietly sipping a drink at the bar or chomping away on crudités at a poolside party. In order to try and get a guy to notice you, you need to stand out from your group so avoid herding in with other older females at the party. Instead look self-assured as you cast a sweeping gaze at the room and smile sweetly at everyone.
    
4. Send the right signals
   
   The correct body language is important in catching the attention of any man but more so in cougar dating where a potential partner is younger and therefore maybe more hesitant of taking the initiative. Try to catch his attention but in a subtle manner. Make eye contact for a couple of seconds, smile and then look away while still smiling. After a brief while, if you find the guy still glancing towards you, then it is a definite sign that he is interested. This could be your cue to walk up to him or if you are lucky he could even walk up to your table. On the other hand after making the initial eye contact, if the guy doesn’t look your way again or turns the other way, then probably you should let it go. There are other aspects of your body language that you can use to signal your interest in a guy like standing with your back arched and breasts out, licking your lips while giving him the bedroom eyes, flipping your hair or if you are rather new to all this you could simply tilt your head and smile warmly.
    
5. Open the conversation
   
   Once you have managed to catch the attention of the cub you would like to date, you need to come up with a way to break the ice. Strike up a conversation by introducing yourself and saying something nice or funny about the place you are at. Don’t get too personal at this point by asking whether he is single or if he needs to be somewhere early tomorrow. The whole idea is to make things comfortable so that you two can get a feel of whether it would be a good idea to go out. The best way to do this is to make small talk with him; you could also do this by commenting on something he is wearing like “I like your jacket/watch” or asking a question, “how long have you been coming to this bar?” After a brief while you could go on to ask him non-intrusive questions about himself, such as what kinds of things he likes to do, what are his favorite kinds of food or if he likes to play sports. Explore common areas of interest, perhaps an activity like ice-skating or a favorite music band. Talk about your mutual interest for a while and then casually mention that you have tickets to this concert and if he would like to go with you. This is also the way to go about when you already know the guy you want to ask out. He could be an acquaintance, a neighbor or a friend of a friend. If the guy begins flirting with you, flirt right back but keep it all non-sexual or you might come off as too desperate. Above all have a plan ready in case he asks you out or if he agrees to your proposal to meet up again.
   Decide beforehand where you would like to go with him and unless he insists otherwise, also be ready to pay for the date. Finally don’t forget to have fun since this is the best way you can ensure you get to see more of your young cub.